Fellow ladies, I am sure you can sympathize with me.
Have you ever been in that moment when you wonder if that
guy looked at you because he likes you, or because he thinks you are a train
wreck??
Who am I kidding? Of course you have!!!
No matter how much confidence I have, how much good I feel
about myself, there is this nagging thought every time a guy looks at me.
They say men can’t read your mind! Hello!! We can’t either!
Well, at least I can’t…
So every time a guy checks me out, I wonder if he is really
interested or do I have something stuck in my teeth (which is often, given my
bugs bunny teeth). And all that confidence, which I usually have, just flies
away!! Like a pigeon with its wings on fire!!
Do you girls feel the same??
And there is this other problem… How do we know if they are
available or not?
At this wedding I recently attended, there was this guy who
made eyes with me all the time! Ok I admit I started it, but he was really
hot…I got this full blown crush right when he first saw me… and I was gone! I
swear my heart was thumping like a hummingbird all the time! The next day my
hopes where shattered! My cousin told me he has been in a relationship for 5
years!! 5!! And that idiot looked at me all through the wedding and encouraged
me… any way I got over the shock, but it kept me wondering…how do we ever know
if someone is available or not??? Asking is one thing, yes! But from where I
come from, we don’t flirt and we don’t tell!!
Maybe people should wear badges saying if they are
committed, or single, or interested, or psychopaths…make them digital so they
can keep updating them!!!Life would be so much easier…I wouldn’t have to spend
hours over the phone with my girl friends dissecting every single move that the
guy made!!
Then there are these confused guys! A guy in my college wins
the award for this one…he is really smart and cute, and I kinda want him to
decide real quick! He looks at me one day, ignores me the next, stares at me
some other day, and there are days he wont even acknowledge my existence. And
my friends swear he runs a quick glance at my usual spot in the class when I am
not there!! Huh?? What is going on in his mind? Does he like me or not?? It’s
as plain as that….Fellow male bloggers, if you happen to read this blog please
help me out…should I move on? Or should I wait for him to make up his mind??
The bottom line is, I want things to be simpler…I don’t want
to spend my time wondering and spending my energy on these useless thoughts
(useless if the guy is really not interested). I mean I can deal with a guy not
interested. But the complexity of all this really ruins it for me and makes me
reach for my axe (not the deodorant, idiot!)
So guys, if you like me come up and say it!! I won’t kill
you! And if you are not, please please DON’T stare at me!! I can deal with a
hot guy not looking, but not with all the confusion if he is not really
interested!!
Do you feel the same??? please do comment…
The Misfit.
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